<p align="center"><span style="font-family:SimSun;"><span style="font-size:16px;"><img alt="" src="http://upload.hzau.edu.cn/attachments/20140530/20140530184432_36421.jpg" width="600" height="450" /></span></span></p> <p><span style="font-family:SimSun;"><span style="font-size:16px;"><span style="font-family:SimSun;"><span style="font-size:16px;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</span></span><span style="font-family:SimSun;"><span style="font-size:16px;">5月29日晚7：30，由校研究生职业发展中心、北京成功使者管理咨询有限公司联合举办，经管院大学生涯发展办公室承办的"职业与生涯讲坛"在园林楼122报告厅举行。国际生涯教练（BCC）中国区授权讲师王小丹做</span></span><span style="font-family:SimSun;"><span style="font-size:16px;">《一生只做八件事--让生命绽放》讲座谈职业规划。</span></span></span></span><br /> <span style="font-family:SimSun;"><span style="font-size:16px;"><span style="font-family:SimSun;"><span style="font-size:16px;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;王小丹</span></span><span style="font-family:SimSun;"><span style="font-size:16px;">向同学们</span></span><span style="font-family:SimSun;"><span style="font-size:16px;">展示一张图片。</span></span><span style="font-family:SimSun;"><span style="font-size:16px;">“山，树，水....”同学们回答自己看见的景物</span></span><span style="font-family:SimSun;"><span style="font-size:16px;">，王小丹</span></span><span style="font-family:SimSun;"><span style="font-size:16px;">提醒大家注意留白的部分有</span></span><span style="font-family:SimSun;"><span style="font-size:16px;">一个婴儿图案</span></span><span style="font-family:SimSun;"><span style="font-size:16px;">呈现以讲述“焦点不同，感受不同”</span></span><span style="font-family:SimSun;"><span style="font-size:16px;">的道理。</span></span><span style="font-family:SimSun;"><span style="font-size:16px;">通过介绍</span></span><span style="font-family:SimSun;"><span style="font-size:16px;">NLP资源锁定系统图，王小丹表明</span></span><span style="font-family:SimSun;"><span style="font-size:16px;">“</span></span><span style="font-family:SimSun;"><span style="font-size:16px;">注意力聚焦到什么，人生就是什么样子</span></span><span style="font-family:SimSun;"><span style="font-size:16px;">”。</span></span><span style="font-family:SimSun;"><span style="font-size:16px;">她认为，</span></span><span style="font-family:SimSun;"><span style="font-size:16px;">无法用语言说服别人</span></span><span style="font-family:SimSun;"><span style="font-size:16px;">时</span></span><span style="font-family:SimSun;"><span style="font-size:16px;">，</span></span><span style="font-family:SimSun;"><span style="font-size:16px;">身体力行很重要</span></span><span style="font-family:SimSun;"><span style="font-size:16px;">。要</span></span><span style="font-family:SimSun;"><span style="font-size:16px;">表现出完成事情的态度</span></span><span style="font-family:SimSun;"><span style="font-size:16px;">，让</span></span><span style="font-family:SimSun;"><span style="font-size:16px;">周围的人对自己改变看法</span></span><span style="font-family:SimSun;"><span style="font-size:16px;">转而帮你。王小丹</span></span><span style="font-family:SimSun;"><span style="font-size:16px;">引出成功五问，即“我想要什么”、“怎样得到我想要的”、“我现在所做的是否有利于得到我想要的”、“我愿意为之付出怎样的努力和代价”和“如何持之以恒”供学生借鉴</span></span><span style="font-family:SimSun;"><span style="font-size:16px;">。</span></span></span></span></p> <p><span style="font-family:SimSun;"><span style="font-size:16px;"><span style="font-family:SimSun;"><span style="font-size:16px;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</span></span><span style="font-family:SimSun;"><span style="font-size:16px;">无法改变人生的长度，</span></span><span style="font-family:SimSun;"><span style="font-size:16px;">可以改变</span></span><span style="font-family:SimSun;"><span style="font-size:16px;">人生的宽度和深度。</span></span><span style="font-family:SimSun;"><span style="font-size:16px;">王小丹</span></span><span style="font-family:SimSun;"><span style="font-size:16px;">展示了自己根据</span></span><span style="font-family:SimSun;"><span style="font-size:16px;">“人生八件事”理念</span></span><span style="font-family:SimSun;"><span style="font-size:16px;">设计并实践</span></span><span style="font-family:SimSun;"><span style="font-size:16px;">的</span></span><span style="font-family:SimSun;"><span style="font-size:16px;">“</span></span><span style="font-family:SimSun;"><span style="font-size:16px;">一生平衡轮</span></span><span style="font-family:SimSun;"><span style="font-size:16px;">”</span></span><span style="font-family:SimSun;"><span style="font-size:16px;">，即完成</span></span><span style="font-family:SimSun;"><span style="font-size:16px;">“帮助很多人</span></span><span style="font-family:SimSun;"><span style="font-size:16px;">”、“</span></span><span style="font-family:SimSun;"><span style="font-size:16px;">写文章”、“</span></span><span style="font-family:SimSun;"><span style="font-size:16px;">周游世界”、“</span></span><span style="font-family:SimSun;"><span style="font-size:16px;">舒适的居所”、“</span></span><span style="font-family:SimSun;"><span style="font-size:16px;">幸福的家庭”、“</span></span><span style="font-family:SimSun;"><span style="font-size:16px;">健康的身体”、</span></span><span style="font-family:SimSun;"><span style="font-size:16px;">“</span></span><span style="font-family:SimSun;"><span style="font-size:16px;">良师益友”、</span></span><span style="font-family:SimSun;"><span style="font-size:16px;">“</span></span><span style="font-family:SimSun;"><span style="font-size:16px;">公益活动”八部分。</span></span></span></span></p> <p><span style="font-family:SimSun;"><span style="font-size:16px;"><span style="font-family:SimSun;"><span style="font-size:16px;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;王小丹介绍，</span></span><span style="font-family:SimSun;"><span style="font-size:16px;">人生规划有</span></span><span style="font-family:SimSun;"><span style="font-size:16px;">个人、家庭、事业、社会四维度，并指导</span></span><span style="font-family:SimSun;"><span style="font-size:16px;">同学们</span></span><span style="font-family:SimSun;"><span style="font-size:16px;">写下一个可能成为自己生命里程碑的“</span></span><span style="font-family:SimSun;"><span style="font-size:16px;">大学生平衡轮”。她</span></span><span style="font-family:SimSun;"><span style="font-size:16px;">提供出</span></span><span style="font-family:SimSun;"><span style="font-size:16px;">设立</span></span><span style="font-family:SimSun;"><span style="font-size:16px;">“</span></span><span style="font-family:SimSun;"><span style="font-size:16px;">人生八件事”</span></span><span style="font-family:SimSun;"><span style="font-size:16px;">的</span></span><span style="font-family:SimSun;"><span style="font-size:16px;">模板项：“</span></span><span style="font-family:SimSun;"><span style="font-size:16px;">拥有一技之长”，“有三五知己”，“每月给父母打两个电话”等。</span></span></span></span></p> <p><span style="font-family:SimSun;"><span style="font-size:16px;"><span style="font-family:SimSun;"><span style="font-size:16px;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</span></span><span style="font-family:SimSun;"><span style="font-size:16px;">“我无法一下子成为我一生中要成为的那个人，我也无法一下子做到一生中要做到的那八件事。但是我只要一年做到了，就是成功的一年，一天做到了，就是成功的一天。”王小丹最后说，“人生就是要活在当下</span></span><span style="font-family:SimSun;"><span style="font-size:16px;">”。</span></span></span></span></p> <p><span style="font-family:SimSun;"><span style="font-size:16px;"><span style="font-family:SimSun;"><span style="font-size:16px;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</span></span><span style="font-family:SimSun;"><span style="font-size:16px;font-family:KaiTi_GB2312;">王小丹，国际生涯教练（BCC）中国区授权讲师；美国NASA-4D领导力授权讲师，美国HPI人力绩效提升授权导师；国际教练联合会（ICF）会员；《教练型领导》、《教练型老师》课程导师；北京成功使者管理咨询有限公司高级教练；《一生只做八件事》合著作者；《职场内驱力》作者。</span></span></span></span></p>